Twenty four
years! Yes I was turning 24 and the thumbnail was; “confusion, a complete state of delirium.”
Over the period
of time, I had learnt how to socialize, talk to people but the discomfort is
still deep seeded in the heart.
It has always
been easy for me to converse with a total stranger than somebody that I have
always known.
This time it was
different. I knew him, almost for 20
years of my life!
It’s 19:40 and
my phone rings. It was blaring at the top of its voice in the bedroom and I was
dying to know who had called because it was my birthday week and people had
been calling. Few had been kind enough to send me a token of their remembrance.
“What are you
doing tomorrow?”
“Nothing.”
“But why? It’s
your birthday.”
“Because I have
nothing to do.”
“Okay! Here’s a
plan. Would you like to come to Goa with me for your birthday?”
So, here was a
plan. And you can understand the excitement I would have felt. I have never been
quite a loner but the idea had completely set into me that I had also never
been totally accepted.
The social
circle that I have had comprises of a huge number of people but the inner
circle that I really have encompasses only a few. Few, who are in my heart and
my mind, few who would come to me at 4 am just for a smoke, few who would
always look down upon me but when I am in need they will go on a rampage, who
would wake me up at night and ask me to talk, few who would try to set me
up and then laugh at me.
This circle was
shrinking, and I was unaware. The walls were crumbling
“Yes, yes I am game.” I wish I had never said that.
I packed up,
called my boss and said that I would be on a 2 day leave for my birthday. Happy
that I was, it was Goa Birthday.
We met at around
8:00 in the morning and started the drive to Goa, one of the best road trips
that I had ever had.
Twelve hour ride
along the meandering roads through the nature, it’s when you fall in love. Fall in love with your own self, fall in
love with the lush green, fall in love with the dusty road, the blue sky, the
very idea of speed. And to top the adrenaline, alcohol and nicotine were doing
their best.
As I put my feet
out on the deck of the car and lay back with music in the air, I felt like
life was at its best. He was there sitting right beside me and I still could
not understand the destiny’s laugh.
Goa is a second
home. I head for it as and when I feel the need to get into my cocoon, embrace
my own self and feel the life in me. It brings me back from the world of dead
to the world of me.
It was cold and
probably I should have been jaded after a 3 hour sleep last night and a twelve
hour journey but I felt a surge of freshness burst into me the moment I set my
foot out of the car and headed for the cold sand of Anjuna. Life seemed to be at its zenith.
The fanatical trip that it was, I had never imagined
that the events would turn out this way.
DAY 1: The Home Coming
It was way into
the night. We say that places close to
your heart are places where you find your soul mates, where you engage in all that
your soul would ever wants to do. My heart was dancing; my eyes were
scintillating as we held hands and walked the chilly sandy beach of Anjuna. I
was fluttering like a butterfly set loose on a plateau of flowers. I was sky
high in exhilaration.
As I gutted the beer, and left my companions bickering
about something and everything, I was taking in the salt laden breeze atop the terrace
of Janet & Jones. What more could I ask from life?
I wanted to hug
him and thank him from bringing me back to my home, to let me meet people who have come in my life for a short while but
worth the while, people from MY Goa, people worth the smile that I am having on
my lips as I write this. I was missing someone. I was reminiscing about the
last lone trip. Goa has always given me
memories. Just one dance at the very same café had brought us close during that
trip. Close not physically but we had struck a chord in a more sublime way. How Can I ever forget him who had brought
me smiles? A total stranger from a country of love and romance, he had shown me
how a smile could just take away all the apprehensions.
I felt the urge to go back and write to him.
I guess it was 4
am when we returned to our stay at the cozy shack White Negro.
DAY 2: The Rastafari
GOA morning!
After a
sumptuous breakfast at a small café at Chapora, we headed for the Aguadas. Still
unwary of what the trip had in store for me, I was relishing every moment.
The long drive
to Morjim, Calangute, the beer, the scotch, people, colors of their dresses,
the artifacts they were all giving me a different kind of high. I missed the party
at Lagoona and The Little Door. I missed
the very essence of being with strangers, strangers who become a part of you.
Who don’t judge you, but laugh with you, who hold your hands not because they
know you but because they are in love with the twinkle in your eyes, because you
synced.
As we headed
towards the night, we headed back to Anjuna and this time, we were a part of
the crazy mad Goa at the Curlies. It was 25th Dec and the dear me
Goa celebrates Christmas with a frenzy. I could feel energy everywhere. Even the
hookah that I was puffing on, seemed to be an entirely out of the world experience.
He was sitting right beside me. We were colored in the radium paints as the
music blared and our feet moved like unrestrained dogs. I couldn't hold back
anymore and danced my heart out.
One of the most
vivid re-collections that I have from that night is the search for God’s gift
to humanity; the herb that brings the universe together.
The only
irritation on this trip was his friend. Someone with a nose too high and one
who couldn’t keep his mouth shut. I wished this pain had never been introduced
to me and to this beauty. The arrogant brat was sucking away the joy, the ebullience
of Rastafarianism.
As I smoked up
with his friends, he went into a deep slumber and I don’t recall having any
conversation thereafter that night. I slept peacefully. The world belonged to
me.
DAY 3: The Last Night
Do I really need
to write about every single place I went? I hope not. Goa is home. Let it be
that way.
This was the
last night that we were spending in Goa and I wanted to make the most of it.
As we sat on the
serene beach of Ozran, I felt a connection for the first time; a connection
that had aroused out of jealousy, as you may call it; jealousy of someone else
being close to him. The breeze, the lights, the noise of water rumbling on to
the rocks, it was just perfect to feel love, or so I thought.
That arrogant
brat was right. I was probably jealous. 20 years of togetherness and someone
else holds an important place, the fact was beyond my understanding or rather I
didn’t want to acknowledge it.
What I was oblivious of, were the feelings that his
heart was brewing.
The night unfurled
its wings and we headed back to our abode.
Was it alcohol in our blood or was it real, I still don’t
get it. What made us come together?
“This is your
Gift!” he had said as he embraced me.
The embrace was
pure. Or that I thought it was. A simple hug and things just changed. Twenty years
of friendship had just found its course. A
relationship was blooming over the grave of another.
What we failed to understand was that flowers on the
graves do not live for long. They wither away and with time their fragrance
fades giving way to weary petals. The question is,
had I misjudged him? A forlorn, wretched soul that he had become, I was well
aware of it. He was an unhappy soul and I had encountered this on several
occasions. What pulled me towards him? It is said that ghosts are attracted to
people of their kind. Was my ghost looking out for him? Or rather no, my soul
wanted me to feel the pangs of melancholy.
I would accept
the latter.
This trip had
come to an end and with that had died the effervescence of our relationship.
It was a short
lived one. Three days from now, it will die its natural death, this I had no
clue of.
Why does it
happen that when you start holding on to your life, the strings change into
granules of ever slippery sand and pass through your fingers? I was in control
of my life and then this trip had changed everything. My heart ached.
The friendship had
worn out already. And what I was holding on to was a weak raw thread. I believed
it was a strong rope that would bind us. God, I was wrong.
I do not blame
him for embracing me, showing me love and then breaking my heart. He made his
exit and for good.
We will all die. That’s inevitable. So why stop living?
Actually sooner or later, it never matters; time is the empyrean, the God, the
almighty. One day, when the clock of the universe stops for one of us, that
day, that very day we will watch the entire picture. What will then matter; the
choices that we actually made for our lives, the lies we spoke or how
sacramental our lives had been?
Whatever it be, Goa has always given me love, it has
given me memories, stories that I would be telling twenty years from now. This time
it went one step further and cleansed my palette of the unworthy.
Goa you just
bring me smiles.